12/27/17~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Baby Grand' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Festive Cymbals' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Festive Tuba' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Festive Violin' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Skull Violin' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Jingle Bells' Hidden Avatar"
12/28/17~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Award Winner' Hidden Avatar"
12/29/17~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Scrooge' Hidden Avatar"
01/01/18~ "Lavender has eaten 2,450 or more Gourmet Food and has just won Orange Chocolate Marapop." "Congratulations! You found the 'Stumped' Hidden Avatar"
01/02/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Dream' Hidden Avatar"
01/03/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Buttercream' Hidden Avatar"
01/07/18~ "Lavender has eaten 2,550 or more Gourmet Food and has just won 900,000MP."
01/31/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Pixie Dice' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Triangle' Hidden Avatar"
02/02/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Sweet' Hidden Avatar" "Pehrsimmon is now wearing Candy Costume"
02/06/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'It's Snowing' Hidden Avatar"
02/10/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Bronze' Hidden Avatar"
02/25/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Forums' Hidden Avatar!" 03/05/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Deadly' Hidden Avatar"
03/06/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Bagpipe' Hidden Avatar"
03/18/18~ "You have 2,950 or more items in your Wardrobe and the Wardrobe Fairy has given you 200,000MP."
03/21/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Maragotchi' Hidden Avatar"
03/25/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Lucky Unlucky' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Happy St Patrick's Day' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Stormy' Hidden Avatar"
03/27/18~ "You have completed the Private Dental Insurance Map You now have lifetime access to my premium mouths" "Congratulations! You found the 'Maracas' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Panflute' Hidden Avatar"
04/01/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Pebbles' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Easter Egg Hunt 2018' Hidden Avatar"
04/02/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Happy Easter 2018' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Egg Painting' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Eh?' Hidden Avatar"
04/03/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Mintcream' Hidden Avatar"
04/04/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Violin' Hidden Avatar"
04/05/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Sugar Buzz' Hidden Avatar"
04/06/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Harp' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Piccolo' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Bell' Hidden Avatar"
04/08/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Electric Guitar' Hidden Avatar"
04/09/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Kamilah Traveller' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Bongos' Hidden Avatar"
04/11/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Candy Cannon' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Xylophone' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Recorder' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Claves' Hidden Avatar"
04/13/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'French Horn' Hidden Avatar"
05/07/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Fifi' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Castanets' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Cello' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Flute' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Tambourine' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Tuba' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Drum' Hidden Avatar"
05/25/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Magic Carpet' Hidden Avatar"
05/29/18~ "Congratulations! You found the 'Bigfoot' Hidden Avatar" "Congratulations! You found the 'Quest' Hidden Avatar" "
Even two months later my mom and I are still receiving sympathy cards. Today was one from many of my dad's past coworkers and work-related friends. My beliefs that he was a kind soul and hard worker were confirmed. At first I was smiling thinking how blessed I was to have a dad so many people felt connected to.
Then I came across a small note on the card with the simple statement-
"He was so proud of you both."
And I absolutely lost it.
I'm so damn angry and frustrated that other girls will get to have their dad walk them down the aisle or hold their babies. It makes me so mad. He was ripped away from us. It makes me so sad. His future was stolen. He didn't deserve that. and I don't think I'm ever going to get over any of this.
I live with Patacake
